Stephanie - posted on 07/07/2010 ( 42 moms have responded )
My daughters father has probably seen her 12 times and she is 14 months old. At first I was trying to get him around and in Maggie's life but he just wasn't there. Now all the sudden since Maggie is older he wants to take her and that's not okay with me. Ive spent the last 14 months doing everything and anything I could to raise a beautiful, healthy, wonderful little girl and I don't think its fair that he thinks he can just start taking her whenever he wants. He pays child support but hes never spent any time getting to know her, so Ive felt wrong letting her go with pretty much a complete stranger!! So, I needed a sitter for work and he was my last option. I called and told him it wouldn't be long and he said of course, that was fine...Well he took it upon him self to introduce our child to his girlfriend, of 2 months...and then I had to find out from someone else. I was out raged and really hurt. I feel like he doesn't have a relationship with her himself and I don't know why he thinks its okay to introduce her to another stranger. I know that its inevitable that she will meet a girlfriend of his someday but this soon really made me mad....do you think i am over reacting?