Kelly - posted on 04/24/2010 ( 22 moms have responded )
my kids father walked out on me and our kids a couple months ago. at first i thought it was a "i need space thing" because he was acting nice and yes ill admit we did hook up a couple of times. he was coming to see our kids now ages 4yrs and almost 7months regularly for the first 3 weeks. now everything has turned around hes sayin hes not coming home ever, hasnt really spent more than ten min with the kids in about a month. and now i receive messages from his x who is now his gf that he was w/her the whole time we were!! i have been a train wreck since he left and he knows this. he left two days before we were supposed to pay bills. i cant go anywhere w/o being scrutinized if im seeing anyone. him and his family are driving me absolutely mad! now i try my best to not let my son see me crying. but max is soo sweet he says mommy u'll be ok. like i said now their father doesnt want anything to do w/him. ive tried keeping things as civil as possible. its to the point where our son doesnt even want to see him when i ask about seeing daddy. is that a normal reaction for a 4yr old to be having?? but the more i dont talk to him the more he tries and tries to bring me down and i dont know how much more i can take?? any advice??