Tiffany - posted on 06/09/2010 ( 59 moms have responded )
Not too long ago I found out I was pregnant, once I found out I told my family and also let my babys father and his family know. As soon as I told him he quickly stated how he would pay for an abortion, with no job and no stability. This hurt me to an effect and until this day every now and then I still get a little emotional because of the way he's treating my pregnancy and also because of hormones. Anyways, everyone on my side of the family is fine and are ready to be there for me even his family is and said that they would help in anyway, everyone is okay with it except for him. He claims how there is no baby and how he doesn't want to talk to me or deal with me , probably not for the baby's sake either. Everytime I did talk to him he would always end up yelling for no reason.His family has also tried to talk to him about what he's doing and how it isn't right, they can't even get through to him. I want him to be in our childs life and he claims that if I am pregnant he'll be there, but if he denies the baby now what is that saying. I've talked to friends and family and they keep saying maybe he'll come around when the baby gets here. I on the other hand have not tried to get my hopes up for that and am just focusing on me and the baby.
Am I doing the right thing?