Julie - posted on 09/30/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )
I have four girls from age of 6-11 yrs old.... Girls go with dad almost every weekend for sleep night over.... However, this is only temporary til next court date.. Anyway, back in feburary 2011 he was given an order from court that he is not all to slee with any of his girls on same bed. He is not one of those dad who would do anything bad to his girls... He does not have his own place to live so he is living with his brother, wife and three boys. He sleeps in the guest bedroom... Last weekend, I ask the girls where to slept and they said they all slept in a double/queen bed with dad... My younpt on the floor while all of other firls slept on same bed with dad. I reminded him that he is not allow to sleep in same bed with the girls as it is inappropriate. He answer me back thru text message stating not to text him regarding to this matter as it is inapproriate.... As a mom, it is my job to make sure when they go visit with dad that they are safe and make sure they have an approriate place to sleep. Their dad is so hard to communicate when it comes down to the girls and all he does is give me negative feedbacks.... Has anyone been in a similar situation and what did you do?? I know, I have court coming up soon and will be bringing this matter up in court... Our children should have a comfortable place to sleep when they go visit their dad and should be sleeping on couch, air mattress or bed and not be sleeping with dad... I am especially concern with my oldest as she is developing and my second child has so much curiousy between a girl and a boy.....