Kristen - posted on 12/30/2009 ( 30 moms have responded )
My daughter is 2 months old. Her father left me when I was 6 months pregnant. He is in her life, and a very good father. BUT he has made very poor decisions in the past, and I do not feel comfortable with her staying over night with him. He has an apartment with 3 other guys, two, which are brothers. They are all about having numerous girls over, partying, and drinking. I KNOW that he would NEVER have such activities like that while she is on his care. and he keeps nagging me about not letting her stay over night. I really don't have a good reason for him, except that I am not ready, and not completely comfortable with her staying the night. She does go over there during the day a few times a week though. And he looks at it like its no different from her coming over all day. I need advice on what to do. Help? Please & thank you.