Grasshopper - posted on 09/13/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )
i was seen a guy for two years , he told me he was infrtile, so i wasnt been carefuli know thats stupid, we stopped seeing each other but then we starten meeting again, i fell pregnant when i told him first he was brilliant and so happy then all of a suden he got distantad then he started to ignore me alot and then got a new girlfriend , all in the space of a week! one week he was texten me and given me hugs and sang how happy he was and then he was gone, then he got in contact saying he wanted to meet up and didnt show he done this 3 times to me , he tells me he wants to be there but im 5months pregnant now and he wants to get a test done i said to him yes get the test done but the child is yours , i get the odd message from him saying he wants to be friends and he wants to meet up but then he doesnt he told me he was still interested in me but i dont see it and the fact he was treaten me like that trough out the pregnacy i dont want a relationship with him i just want him to be thee for the little baby when it is born, hes said so many things and promised me so much but im terrified this child will grow up not meeting its father as he doesnt seem to carry out what he says hes going to do or was going to do. im doing so well so far anyhow have all the baby stuf and keeping busy doing the baby room and geten a bigger car and moving into a house next year , i have great support from my family and friends and they seem to think he will regreat it but dont think he will as he doesnt seem to care at all and it makes me sad. also its so unfair that he can get on with his life and leave me here to do all this on my own when hes known me for 3 years and i never thaught id end up a single mum. anyone out thee rekon he will pull trough ?