Summer - posted on 10/14/2009 ( 81 moms have responded )
I started thinking about getting back into dating and meeting guys. My mind started wondering what kind of guy do i really want now that i am a mother ( no guys like my ex thats for sure), but then something hit me. What if i meet a great guy that had everything i want in a man but had huge issue. He has kids he doesnt see/take care of. I mean there are thousands of single moms and there are thousands of men that made it that way.
So Would YOU date a guy that didnt take care of his own children (example: didn't pay child support,didnt go see them,blames the mother for not being apart of his childrens lifes,etc). Although besides that he had EVERYTHING you WANT in a man?? JW.
For me thats a deal breaker 100%!!!
I know as a single mom i wound never date a guy that didnt take care of his children. But i see A LOT of single women who don't have children date deadbeat dads to there children. Trust me my ex is dating a 19 year old who thinks he sooooo wonderful. She doesnt have children so she believes everything he says. I guess we live and learn right?