Clare - posted on 03/10/2009 ( 12 moms have responded )
Yes I am actually wanting to express my anger and anxiety about how much more I am trying to advise my ex partner to see more of our daughter. I just dont understand how men when we divorce or spearate somehow come up with the conclusion that they suddenly have choices that they can see the children whenever it suits them.
My daughters dad shes her every other weekend. It use to be every weekend but I bravely got into full time work which has recently came to a closure. Now i am not working I have said he shoudl spend more time with our daughter given that she is 2 anda half and wakes up crying for her daddy, is deeply stressed when she has nightmares and her daddy is not there and all i can say is daddy is busy or daddy is at worl. I have talked to hiom but he always has a WEDDING to attend and he finally admitted he cant see her because he has a life to led.
I just wondered what other peoples thoughts are, I have relaised that I cant control the fact he doesnt want to spend time with her extra although there are father and mothers alike who would kiss to see their children as much as possible. I have to admit I really dont know what to say to my daughter when she wants her dad and is so upset and doesnt let me cuddle her to calm her down.