Whitney - posted on 08/08/2009 ( 29 moms have responded )
Ok, so I am 18 going to be a Freshman in the fall. I had my 13 month old baby girl when i was a senior in high school. Me and the father were together for 3.5 years....We were doing good. I still live with my mother and after my daughter was born I found out that the father was cheating on me. I do not tolerate cheating so I broke up with him....
Let me back up some....before I even got pregnant, I realized that the father was mentaly abusing me. I was not allowed to talk to any other guy and He wold constantly need to know where I was. My mother even told me not to be with him. There was even a time for about a year that I went behind my moms back to date him. My mom told me he was possesive....
Oh and he is an illegal alien from mexico.
Through out my whole pregnancy he was there for me and we would go out and buy stuff for the baby.
When she was born he was there for about 20min and then left.
because our baby was 2 months early, she was in the NICU. He never went up there...we didnt see each other much and He wasnt really around...I had to be at the hospital for 4 weeks like all day ..
after she was 2 months old i found out he was cheating on me.. and he addmitted that he have been cheating on me even when i was pregnant and he cheated on me the night our daughter was born. I broke up with him and he didnt come around.
I told him he could come over and see his child if he brought some money or even a pack of diapers....He never did.
I havent seen him since she was 2 months old. Last i heard was that he was deported from Mexico. He is now back and going to my friends house looking for me saying that he wants he "baby girl".....
And I dont want to tryto get child support from him b.c i dont want him to get any rights to her. He is dangerous ....He has threatend my life and told me before that he would take her to mexico....My own mother has told me that she is scared of him....When I talked to my friends about him being back and him going to their house they have even told me that he is crazy...
I am going to school in the fall to get my degree and I am trying to get support from the state to get daycare vouchers.....they said i have to go through child support first...
So Now i will be going to school more than full time 15 hrs....and I am going to have to work as much as possible because now i am going to have to pay for daycare and that is like 150 a week....and working minimum wage that is every cent I make is towards daycare....hopefully I will make enough. I will find out shortly.
What do you think about this?