Sheronda - posted on 08/02/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
I'm just going to start from the beginning. I found out that my boyfriend of two years had been cheating on me with a woman that lived in the same apartment complex. He had been living with her for the last four months of our relationship. When this was brought to my attention, I immediately broke up with him and put him on child support. He didn't really help me with my son in the first place. I eventually got over the situation and let him start picking up our son. He allowed his girlfriend's daughter to bite my one year old leaving a purple and black mouth print on his arm. When things are fine between us, he doesn't want him. He only wants him when we get into arguements and I tell him not to contact me for anything. I am 19, my child's father is 23, and his girlfriend is 30. She will call me at anytime causing problems. . . telling me things like "I got your man and you miss that d*** don't you?" She recently found out that she had hpv and called me saying that it was my fault, when I'm not even having sex with her. He let's her set the rules about how he will see my son. If my son is not allowed to go to their house then he cant see him because he is not allowed to be in my house for more than 10 minutes.These two people are harrassing me and making my life miserable and I'm the youngest. I'm just trying to make a good life for my son by working, raising him without help, and going to college. I'm trying my hardest to be the best mother to my son and I want him to have both of his parents so bad. But I don't believe that I have to sacrifice my own sanity and happiness by letting his father cause so much chaos in my life. I just don't know what to do anymore and I'm finding myself being really depressed at times.
P.S: It's alot more stuff that's going on and sorry for the bad grammar, I just had to get this off my chest. I feel like a young woman on the edge!