Nicole - posted on 08/09/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I guess I am on here looking for opinions , it kind of helps to hear other people's thoughts on my situation, especially if you have gone through the same thing.
Basically to cut a very long story short, I rushed into a relationship with a man, who turned out to lie and cheat the whole way through our relationship.
I fell pregnant 5 months into the relationship as I really thought he was "the one" , he totally stringed me along the whole time, he is the type of man that hates being single.
whilst with me he constantly lied, met women on dating sites, cheated, and stole, when we finally broke up he ran off leaving me to deal with aload of unpaid debts.
His family do not even like him as his lies have hurt them in the past, he also lied very badly to my family, who hate him, friends who have met him took an instant dislike to him.
we have a six month old son together, and I never wanted to be the type of mum that denies the dad to see their own son, however he started letting us down on visits, one excuse was he was ill and didn't want my son catching what he had, little did I know he was in bed with a woman he had met from the internet the previous night.
He hasn't given me any money for our son, and asks about him by email.
I don't know what to do, I never want my son turning out like this man, he is truly awful and I honestly think he is mentally ill and the lies never stop.
I have had to go to an sti clinic too, as ex's of his have contacted me to tell me he did the same to them , full of lies and cheats, I feel like I can't trust my son anywhere near him, and unsure of what to do...
Any advice would be great