Marcie - posted on 08/25/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )
well I had my daughter at 17 after a 4 year relationship with he dad went sour I moved far away and fell in love with my boss at my new job (not over night took a year or so) well this past 4th of july marked my new mans 4th year with me. we have a son together. I lived with him for 1 1/2 year and then moved out once i lost my job and had a hard time finding a new one and all he did was bitch about money.. we still see each other regularly...but I am the only one doing bedtimes, diaper changes. feeding him dinner, lunch breakfast whether he is there or not. 3 weeks ago I asked him if he had vacation time at work to use up because (I got my tubes tied today) i needed to know if he could at least take our son for 2-3 days MAX and my daughter who is older isnt a hassle when it comes down to me needing rest ....plus my paprents said she was welcome there if need be. well I said he didnt have time off...but i find it funny he took all last week off ALL of it the week before my surgery....and asks how long will it be before we can have sex again. R U SERIOUS??!! now don't think he's in it just for the sex. He's broken up with me and came crying back at my door. i break up with him it takes a few days but again it's HIM coming to me. and I hate to love him cuz i just keep dealing with it. any suggestions???