Lea - posted on 05/27/2009 ( 20 moms have responded )
i met this guy and he is really cute. we flirted for a few minutes at a club and then he facebook-ed me the same day. but i didn't tell him i was a mom during our conversation so he found out about logan through facebook (horrible, i know).
im very, very proud of my son and my accomplishments and raising him but i don't know how others will judge me. i feel like guys should get to know me before they hear about my son.
i dont want some one to cross me off right away because im a mom- i'd rather we get to know each other first. and i know if that turns their heads away they are not worth my time... but one of my guy friends said i should tell people within the first 30 secs. am i supposed to introduce myself "hi, im lea and im a mom" or should i wait until the first date or first phone call? is it better in person? right away?
what is the right way to tell someone you are a mommy??