Dianna - posted on 11/05/2009 ( 9 moms have responded )
My baby's birth father never wanted anything to do with his life, he made that very clear. my son is almost 3 mos., and i feel i have done enough to attempt to let him know the "door is open" but at this point what kind of parent could he really be if he doesn't want the responsibility. i have thought years from now when i have to tell my child the truth, what do i say. i could never tell my son his birth dad never wanted him. should i try harder to get him involved?? what about stability? he's just a baby, i could never imagine him going back n forth? that couldn't be happy living 2 different lives, parents not on the same page. For my son's sake i am willing to be civil and compromise, but we can't even get through a phone conversation without arguing, he's so indecisive, and continues to be immature and play games. My current boyfriend has been with me since i was 3 mos. preg., he seen my son delivered and he has been a wonderful father to him...is this going to eventually break my son's heart that it isn't his birth dad, how willi make him understand??so when is a good time to tell your child the truth???