when you do get alone time how do you spend it

Jessica - posted on 03/07/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )




me i try to pamper myself but some how miss my kids while im out doing me.. i wonder what they doing and rush home to see them .. is this wrong am i the only mom that does this?

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Amanda - posted on 03/10/2010




There is nothing wrong with missing your kids while you are out enjoying some "me time". When I don't have my kids, I am constantly texting or calling their sitter to find out how they are ans what they are doing.

Christina - posted on 03/10/2010




I don't think you are alone. Somehow we feel guilty doing things for ourselves. It's weird because you can think to yourself "O man I need a break", but when you get a break you want to be home. I do however think it's important to have some pampering time for ourselves as mothers. Things can get stressful and over the top per se, and taking time for ourselves helps us kind of refresh and remember what we love about parenting. lol.

Michelle - posted on 03/07/2010




Time Alone... I don't really remember what that is. I'm either at work or have my son with me. Sometimes I'd like to be able to go clothes shopping or see a movie or go have a drink with friends like other adults do. But I love having my kiddo and know the situation will change too soon when his father gets out of supervised visitation.

To be honest I think I would take naps if I had free time! lol

Alison - posted on 03/07/2010




When I don't have my kids I cleaned, do errands and spend time with my friends.

Jamee - posted on 03/07/2010




when i go out i feel wierd without my son, i always hurry home to see him. i dont know sometimes i just stay home or take him out somewhere then i feel better knowing he's having fun and is with me.

Kassi - posted on 03/07/2010




Its healthy to miss your child while your gone. Personally I get nervous thinking about going out and not having my son with me. However, you can always call home and see what they are up to. It gives me piece of mind and I can hear my sons voice while I am gone.

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