Kodi - posted on 03/21/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I am feeling guilty about dating, I have a 4 and 1 year old and its alot of hassle just to go on a date, I have found a for now someone its not something i would keep long term, adn i think that is why i feel guilty. I have seen him off and on and we work with eachothers scheldules with a breeze! But I need time to remember that i am not just a mommy. That i am an adult woman with certain needs and to be kid free, is this so wrong? Do others feel this way? Not trying for marraige, or long term, i just need a releif from the daily grind. Being mommy 100% of the time is hard. I do love my kids. Whats ya'lls input? Oh and on a note he has met my kids, they LOVE him, he is good with them, totes my daughter around the house everywhere he goes. Its cute. SO its not a damaging relationship. And at the same time they arent getting attached to him they have active fathers in their lives and they just think of him as mommys friend like the girls that come over to hang out that are my friends too.