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Psychotic ex is ruining my bf and mines relationship

Katrinka - posted on 07/05/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Please help me figure out how to deal with my bf as he starts a custody battle with his ex. We both have children and we have known each other for years but recently started dating. Our children are extremely happy all together and we want to eventually become a normal happy family. However, his ex is making that a huge problem for us. She harasses him daily, dangles their child in front of him, and has recently been arrested for drugs. We have called CPS, the cops, the state, and anyone who can help us but our pleas go answered. I love this man but the stress of everything is making me go crazy. We fight more, intimacy physically or mentally is non-existent, we are constantly arguing. I don't know how to handle this situation. It's becoming a huge mess and I could really use some advice please!

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Susan - posted on 01/14/2013

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That is horrible that his ex is causing you guys so many problems! She's doing this to ruin your relationship and just remember that you guys love each other and your family! Don't give up on YOUR relationship with him, because you guys are going through some tough times, because of her. I understand the arguing and fighting must be hard- just hang in there and don't give up.

As for calling all those people and having nothing answered, I honestly don't know how to answer that. You would think they would get back to you and help you guys out!

But since there is a custody battle going on, just keep track of EVERY time you guys interact with the ex. If you show all her crazy behavior and prove that she got arrested for drugs and put all that bad stuff she does written down as evidence, that will def help your BF's case for custody.

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