Anne - posted on 10/11/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )
I have been reading some of the other single mums parts of the community and I fully understand that the missing fathers can be massively difficult to deal with and can drive you to the edge as I have been there. My kids father isn't a nice person but I realised sometime ago what my father always says is right. He can't annoy you if you don't let him. If you let all the things role off you, you don't get upset and the knots in your stomach won't hurt any more. You don't waste your life getting angry at someone that really doesn't matter. It not easy but OMG it is so worth it. Is anyone else at this stage?