Zarabeth - posted on 02/19/2011 ( 9 moms have responded )
I have a 1 year old daughter and i'm 20 years old. I was with my ex for four years and when I fell pregnant he said to keep the baby he will stick by me. At 7months pregnant i found out he had slept with 14 other women and was having an affair with a 15th,16th and 17TH!!, the affiar with the 15th starting the day we found out about my pregnancy.
We (very stupidly) got back together untill our daughter was 2months when I found out he never ended it with the 15th tart.
My daughter started having health problems thats aggravated her asthma on tuesday, which had me taking her to hospital at 4am, and on Wednesday he booked a flight to Rome for a week for a flight out on Thursday, with the 15th girl. I had to rush her back to hospital today where she was digonosed with nuro virus. I texted him to tell him and he ignored his phone, later telling me he wants nothing to do with her, and that he dosn't care what happens! This is the last of 30 occations where he has said this during the past year, but I kept trying to keep her daddy in her life, but I can't do it no more. I now think if he want to see her in future he can come to her, or if she want to see him i will help her to contact him but I won't chase no more.
Is this the right thing to do?
And how have you managed to be mummy and daddy?