Danielle - posted on 03/06/2010 ( 37 moms have responded )
well every year my husband and some frieds and family take a motorcycle trip for a week. and i am happy he gets to take a break because he deserves it he works hard for our family and i appreciate all he does for us. but i really would luv if i could take a vacation even if it was a weekend, but when it comes to me taking a vacation he always say "oh well if you take a vacation who will watch the kids"? its like he gets to take his vacation and i am with the kids easy as that. but i wish for once he would just say "hunny if you need a break we will find a way to make it work". but it never happens that way. i guess just sometimes i feel like its always about my husband and i just get over looked sometimes because "its my job to watch the kids" thats what i am told any way. am i the only one that feels this way, am i totaly wrong for wanting a break? i try to talk to my husband about it and he just comes up with every reason why i cant, or hell say "oh you need a vacation away from me uh"?, but its not like that at all . just dont know what to do does anyone have any advice?