Jessica - posted on 09/06/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )
I wasn't sure who else to talk to about this and it may really sound high schoolish, but I need other peoples opinion on this. There is a group of friends here on base that we usually hang out or really I should say its just three of them hanging out and I'm usually the outsider. Which is no big deal cause I'm usually busy with my husband and little girls. Female A has a husband that is deployed and a 11 year old girl. Female B has a family of 5 and a husband. Female C has a 5 year old boy, pregnant and due in November and her husband is soon going to Korea for a year. We With female A I feel like she wants to be the center of the party and let me tell you she is 1 year shy from 40 years old. I feel like she talks about events that happen in front of me to feel left out and its just starting to get really uncomfortable. I mean of course I would love to hang out but I have my priorities set differently and my husband isn't deployed either. So females B and C are usually at her house till late hours of the night, which really doesn't bother me. So whenever I do go around she just makes me feel weird. So yesterday I decided to make a lunch to see how things went and I invited them over, so as we are talking about the birth plan of the pregnant girl, I made a comment to her saying "I will probably be crying with you" so Female A says " then you are going to be the last person that we call".... You know little comments like this are just uncalled for. I love having friends but not ones that make me feel like this. My husband says if its in your gut then its probably true. Is she jealous of me or does she want to be the center of it all, I don't know but I didn't think I'd be going through this with someone that is 10 years older than me. What do y'all think? Am I being childish?