bored being a home mom

Kimberly - posted on 07/08/2010

I get bored too but scrapbooking keeps me from going insane! Just take up some kind of hobby! :)

Melissa - posted on 07/08/2010

Take up baking , I have been a decorator for 7 years and It all started because I was bored at home and I wanted to learn something new. Just a suggestion,

Mandy - posted on 07/08/2010

I can so relate with all the moms who cannot find something fun to do! I moved to the States 10 years ago and at just could not find my place! Before coming here I was a bank manager, so my life was pretty full between my profetional life and my mommy life. However, being a stay at home mom just wasn't working for me.I struggled for many years making tons of friends for whom I am so thankful!, taking classes, shopping, but it was still not enough. It took me a while to understand that I needed to do something for myself. So I started looking into teaching at a church, or volunteering or starting a small business. I finally started a home based business and I am super happy. It was important for me to both have the time flexibility and make some money to pay for my "own pleasures" without feeling guilty. Just keep looking and you will find something you can do and bring your happiness back. Don't give up!

Nitesa - posted on 07/08/2010

i found that taking online classes eases my troubled mind...one day once your daughter has gone off to school you will have gained some skills to put you back in the job market....if that is your plan.....i also like to take mommy time at least twice a week and just do watever i feel the urge to do..such as get my hair and nails done...or maybe just have some me time at the lake or something while hubby has daddy time wit the children....depends on if i want the company of others or just some private calm down time.....i take long drives to the countryside of missouri...maybe about an hour or so...just for relaxing...lots of things we can do, just have to get up and do them..sometimes that's the hard part.

Lisa - posted on 07/08/2010

I agree with finding a hobby (or several) that can help fill up your days. But also remember, people who go to work have days where they are bored also. My hubby travels 20 days out of the month so it's me and the kids on the farm. I usually have some farm chores to do but we also garden and can our food, the kids and I go for 2 walks everyday (one exploration walk for them and one workout walk for me where they are in a stroller), we read, colors, craft, play in the sandbox or in the play yard. I sew for fun and for business (I have a small etsy shop where I sell cloth training pants). We also have story time at the library each week and one night where we visit grandparents. Some days we go to the park and some days we run errands and do the shopping.

As your daughter gets older and is able to do more things, you'll actually find you have less and less time for housework and start to feel like you are neglecting the house!! :)

Robyn - posted on 07/08/2010

Being a bored stay-at-home mom happens pretty easily if that's the only place you stay. A good idea is to go to the park to meet other moms with their children to play together and talk. Good friendships with between parents and children start this way. It relieves boredom and gives support between parents on their children's developmental and behavioral issues. Another idea is to see if there are play groups for small children in your area. Finding a hobby you would like to do, while being at home is also a good idea or small tasks you can do to help others outside your home (i.e., taking someone to the store, baking cookies for a neighbor, babysitting, etc. . . )

Jaylin - posted on 07/08/2010

try to connect with other moms in your area, friends, and just go for walks, and playground. Take a swim class at the Y and u can meet other moms thats way too....try to take sometime to relax during nap time and def go out ALONE at least once a week

Darlene - posted on 07/08/2010

Make yourself busy...Go out and enjoy the day with your baby=)

Chandra - posted on 07/07/2010

my recent thing is planting flowers. it's a nice change. Scrapbooking is fun, but is hard to do with a little one. do homemade crafts with your little one to keep you both busy. though your the one who normally will finish cause they get bored to easy.

Nicolle - posted on 07/07/2010

I am a stay at home mum but i am also studying full time. It is hard as i am studying law full time but it keeps me busy and gives me something more to focus on apart from the house work and my little man.

Jennifer - posted on 07/07/2010

learn a craft you like, then sell it. use your earnings to buy yourself a much needed vacation, or go to disney world / seaworld / universal studios type places.
you could do anything from sewing (making handbags, dresses, bedding, etc.), jewelry crafting, cooking (do a bake sale or start a catering business), or gardening (grow organic fruits n veggies and see how well they sell on the street!)

Sally - posted on 07/07/2010

There is no reason why being a professional mom has to mean staying in the house or having only your child as a social life.
If you have a car, your travel is really only limited by the schedule you want. Get out the yellow pages. Find a mommy and me group. Find a class or gym that is either baby friendly or offers child care. If you're nursing, join the local LLL--great place to socialize with like minded moms. Not your cup of tea--try MOPS, FGC, Kindermusik,etc. Drive to the local park and say 'Hi to the other mommies. Some of them will ignore you, but others will be just as desperate for adult contact as you are. That park has no friendly mommies--go to the next one. Don't have a car--walking will help you lose the baby weight and fresh air is good for both of you. If there are no fun activities within walking distance at least you're out of the house.
Good luck

Ink - posted on 07/07/2010

Laurie suggested earlier that you go visit a nursing home. My big brother is the administrator of a nursing home. He is VERY happy to see me and my boy come in. We spend HOURS going from one person to another. My boy loves the attention and yes, any little visit from any old stranger is an absolute DREAM for some of those people in the nursing home. My brother tells me that some of the people we visit regularly don't get ANY other visits.

I do want to warn you... you will be pelted to death with advice. Every little old lady is going to have a different opinion. "this boy is too FAT!" "This boy is too skinny... feed him!" "he needs some Karo syrup" "give that boy some prunes." "breastfeeding every two hours is too much." "you should be offering the breast every hour." "you don't give him juice? Bad Mama!"

If you can figure out how to accept unwanted advice... smile nod and ignore it... you, your baby AND a few lonely little old ladies are going to have a GREAT time!



Something I've learned over the years.... Don't let the patients talk you into doing something for them that they aren't allowed. Don't take candy... take wild flowers instead. Some can't have candy.. and they will be the ones trying to TAKE it from you. Don't let a patient tell you it's ok to take them outside for a walk... they are going to try to sneak a cigarette. Ask a nurse beforehand.

Emily - posted on 07/07/2010

find a library find a park full of kids go for a walk

Amanda - posted on 07/07/2010

Go to the park, feed the ducks, go for a walk, theres playgroups, mothers groups, indoor play cafes, story time and music time at the libraries, take her swimming lessons, gymbaroo. Google activites for your baby in your area. There should be no reason for you to be stuck at home bored, theres plenty of things for you to do to occupy even the most active of children that dont cost alot

Charlene - posted on 07/07/2010

i know the feeling, i cant get a job until mollie goes to skool she is 10months, i take her swimming on a tuesday playgroup on a thursday and sumtimes after my chores i take her to the ark to keep me busy and to keep mollie active x

Ellen - posted on 07/07/2010

Oh maaan, sorry, but I can't relate...lol. Mother of 5 daughters and I was never bored and I stayed home :D

Heather - posted on 07/07/2010

Do some crafts, scrapbooking is real good for killing time and staying busy and you can record and keep track of all the fun things your little darling is learning to do :)

Steffanie - posted on 07/07/2010

Take up a hobby, take a mommy and me class, join support groups of at home mom's. Many churches have groups like these. If you have friends with children your child's age, plan play dates. Make plans to have lunch with stay at home mom's. Join a gym, and work out daily... Try Avon or one of those work at home jobs... It is a hard transition from working full time to having a small child and being at home. Sometimes you feel isolated. I was lucky, and usually had a friend who was pregnant with me, and many had children the age of my kids. If you live near an amusement park, get a pass! Take your child on the merry go round and other baby friendly rides.

What do you enjoy doing? Make sure you make time to go out weekly with your husband. I think this is important! Join a belly dancing class, or a craft class...Look to your local community, and figure out something that excites you! My mom also had friends that she had, and she would have gone crazy being home with my brother and myself. She played scrabble with her best friend.. Find other stay at home mom's in your area... And plan fun events. There are many things you can do that are low cost and fun. Plan a picnic with friends... A day at the beach with the babies... Staying at home with your baby shouldn't be isolating or make you feel lonely... It is a big world go out and be apart of it!

Olwen - posted on 07/06/2010

Bored Bored Bored. I'm so bored at the moment. we've been living abroad for the past six month's. with my husbands job. No family, no friends. I've been through this a few times so i made sure i booked into as many activities as i could possibly find when we arrived. I love doing all the kids things but my brain needs some stimulation. The first thing a found was a painting class. I absolutely love it and the gym. I don't care about the cost, it's better than me being completely depressed. Before i left, my MIL told me that i'll be fine that i had my little girl and i didn't need any friends. I almost laughed out loud.

Now that i've vented a little, I'll tell you what we do to break up the week. We have dinner during the week, no kids. And no baby talk. I've also met alot of people doing swimming lessons with my daughter. She also goes to child care for a few hours a few to give me a break. But I love me art class and the gym.

Lisa - posted on 07/06/2010

Oh, how I remember those days! It will get better!
May I encourage you... our culture tells us we are doing "nothing" when we are just "stay at home moms". That is simply not true!
You are teaching, training, nurturing and loving a precious life that God gave to YOU, not anyone else. You are THE one for that job! While I agree that finding a hobby, or getting out of the house can certainly help when we are getting stir crazy, the fact that society does not fully value what we do can have a demoralizing effect.
I don't know what your faith is, but, as a christian, I have found it helpful to pray over my family as I tend to the daily tasks at hand. It reminds me of my purpose when it can get lost in the endless loads of laundry and the stack of dirty dishes!
My children are all over the age of 7 now... sometimes the days drug on but the years have flown by! Savor this time with your little girl: pray, exercise, find a hobby, make a friend, take walks outside... most of all remember what a precious and irreplaceable Mom you are to your daughter!

Shannon - posted on 07/06/2010

sell lia sophia jewelry you make your own hours and make $40.00 an hour atleast

Schmoopy - posted on 07/06/2010

Most SAH moms I know don't SAH much. Find playgroups. Visit family. Go for walks in the park. Get a kiddie pool and let her play in your backyard. Find out when your local library has (free) story hour.

Search the web for places and activities that are meant for babies and young children. In my city, there's an indoor playspace that caters to children up to age 3. We go there at least once a week and just hang out. My baby boy loves the new toys, and it's nice for me to get out and feel like I'm not totally isolated.

Debbie - posted on 07/06/2010

I am going for my master's through a local University and I can do online classes as well as go to the school, whichever works for me. It keeps my adult brain occupied and keeps me in the loop with my prior career while I spend time at home.

Christina - posted on 07/06/2010

I felt the same way in the first 2 months of being a SAHM, find a playgroup or mother's group. It's a great way to meet people who are in the same situation. I was lucky enough to find a playgroup when my daughter was 4 months old and we've all been together for 2 years now! Depending on where you live just goggle playgroup usa or playgroup australia and you can find local playgroups. Also, if the first one you go to isn't for you, try another and another...don't give up. Not only is this a great opportunity to make friends but it also helps socialize your little one. HTH!

Jacqueline - posted on 07/06/2010

definately understand how you feel it gets so montonous just being in the HOUSE all the time! I go outside with my son and we play in th house too but not having a car is driving ME crazy because I can't go visit anyone or even bring him to the park! I know how it is! The worst part is when my husband gets home from work and then I am STILL bored because since he has been at work all day he is tired so no going anywhere then! It is a poorly thought out job lmao! And dont get m wrong I love my son and my husband I just would like to get out of the house every once in a while!

Melissa - posted on 07/06/2010

I agree with Susan- hobbies are great to keep you busy. I make diaper cakes and sell them- they keep me busy along with my daily routine of a house wife and caring for my 2 1/2 year old daughter and 9 month old son. I also get out with the kids a couple times a week and we have a playdate once a week. This helps to keep us all busy.

Jamie - posted on 07/06/2010

I agree with L. Hanson. I do a lot of the same stuff: learned to sew, bargain hunt (which my husbands loves for me to do at yard sales), etc. I am even very active at my church, I've written two grants for them and gotten the money. My sister-in-law and I started a ladies group at church and our goal is to get our church (women in particular) to have more social activities that doesn't require them to volunteer/spend money/etc. and it's turned into a great success! I'm active in my local Farm Bureau board which involves meetings once a month to get me out of the house and while my kids take naps or play I get my volunteer work done. If you don't have specific hobbies, then try some and if you don't like it then try something till you find the right thing. I also reccomend volunteering and organizations never mind you bringing the kids, my 15month old daughter has a lot of surragate grandmas and grandpas now. :) I also love to take care of the garden and try new plants every year. Good luck finding something!

Nicole - posted on 07/05/2010

Playdates are good for everybody! The weather is nice so go for walks you might meet up with people.

I was in the same situation not too long ago and one of my friends approached me about working from home. I had not been thinking about going back to work but like this bc I work it when I can (when they are busy playing, sleeping, or at school). It does not take much time and I make $$$ every month even if I do not work! Let me know if you are interested. Good luck!

Melissa - posted on 07/05/2010

I have started making jewelry and I also go for walks ( not only are you getting out of the house but you are exercising) Any think to keep your mind busy while the baby is sleeping or when you are done cleaning.

Kendra - posted on 07/05/2010

my little girl is 11 months and even though she is also very active and does take up most of my time. i do the same too, i have a cleaning routine (sweep, mop, vacuum, dishes, dust...) that i do everyday and i am bored as well. so bored that when it comes time to make dinner im too bored to get any idea on what to make! i decided that it would be best for me to just get a side job. i went to the mall and looked for places that were willing to just give me a job for the weekends. luckily i got a job at sephora and im so excited to just get out of the house. its not much work but at least it gets me out of the house!

Zelphina - posted on 07/05/2010

Watching our children and even our grandchildren grow is truly a blessing. However, boredom does set in after some time. The reason I found for this is loss of self. No adult time. Find some great self development books, some adults to talk to ( other than about kids) and find something to stimulate your mind. A lot of times Stay At Home Moms feel like this is their only definition. There are many home businesses that can be done easily, but please do your research first. Send me a message and let me help you own your life.

Jenn - posted on 07/05/2010

I have been there before two, even with a 4 & 5 yr old we sometimes still find boring moments, esp in the winter! My suggestions is making up new games, dances, crafts etc with your child. For yourself, getting out and going for a walk every day or however many days a week is great. Also, try getting into reading books or magazines, maybe try finding a local group you can join for once or twice a month to go to meet new moms as well. or if you have like a YMCA near you, they offer parent and child classes too. Best wishes! Keep us posted so we can all have more ideas :)

Dani - posted on 07/05/2010

Sorry you are bored being at home I AM or have been in the same boat but was also a business stay at home mom running a dayhome for the last 16 years and am soon for retirement from that position and take my evenings and some of my weekends and do home parties selling lia sophia jewelery here in Canada and you know WHAT NUNU I absolutely love it and so look forward to those scheduled shows with ladies its what I CALL my estrogen time, no housework chores or kids and I can easily make an extra $200-$300 a night at my shows and I AM now working on earning my trip by myself to PUERTO RICO for next April. So I get out with the kids in the park do a small presentation or talk to ladies about my business and I forget about the household problems and it helped solve my boredom
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Kristel - posted on 07/04/2010

join a meet up group with other stay at home mom's or arrange play dates. Take a walk at the mall or something new.

Iris - posted on 07/04/2010

I am a stay at mom of three and I get bored alot. I started teaching myself how to sew, I did the canning thing, I have joined a MOP with a locate church, I got involve with Girl Scouts and I started a small business on the side which I went to trades day. With all of that I was bored, I still need something to keep my mind business and learning someting new. Finding new hobbies, trying something different like cooking will help. Now I am taking online classes and taking my kids to the library. Learning will never get boring. Just find something you like and yes, it may change alot.

Rachel - posted on 07/04/2010

You can find some community, or social mom groups to join. Go to the parks and see if you can't find people to connect with and socialize there.
It happens to the best of us. You just need to engage more with outside sources. If nothing else, start a mommy blog as your own business. You'll have write-offs, tax deductions and perhaps even earn extra income on the side as well. :-)

Julie - posted on 07/04/2010

Study something at uni or TAFE or online

Amanda - posted on 07/04/2010

I'm extremely bored all the time too!!

Samia - posted on 07/04/2010

i think you shouldnt be bored as you have a lovely daughter watching her growing everyday in front of you .my husband is a cabin crew and he travels a lot and i have 2 yrs old boy that i adore and i am enjoying every moment i spend with him.i used to work as an English language teacher for 8 yrs and i stayed at home to stay with my son i play with him,teach him,going out together even dance with each other lol i take him any place where i go to the market,to the hairdresser and make plans and surprises for his daddy when he comes i just want you to enjoy your motherhood as much as you can and enjoy your baby because it is just a phase that wont come again when they grow up they will have their lifes and even they will have no time to spend with their moms.you can also go to the gym and take your baby with or leave her one or two hours with your mom and do whatever you want .i hope i would be helpful enjoy your life with your baby because we just live once best of luck.

Tammi - posted on 07/04/2010

you got me i have the same problem my husband works all day and comes home tired and im ready to do stuff but he isnt then i get mad cause he see people all day and talks to them and here i am home noone to talk to but the kids i want to talk to other grown ups and i cant cause there is noone so i am always in a bad mood i love him to dealth cause i can stay home with our children but i need a life too so what do we do

Laura - posted on 07/02/2010

find a mothers group through church maybe.. i do.. playdates, etc

Laurie - posted on 07/02/2010

Oh how well I remember feeling the same way. I had planned on having no children...and having a career and then...a son and a daughter two years apart. For the first few months, I met my husband coming in the door as I was running out! What a riot! My mom was a career woman and I didn't really know what it meant to be a keeper of the home! I didn't realize all of the freedom I really did have until I began to ask the Lord to show me how I could better invest my time.
I bought a sewing machine and taught myself to sew. I began to bargain hunt and found a canner and some jars and filled the shelves with home canned fruits and vegetables. I met other women with young children at church and at the park and we began to exchange babysitting favors. I learned how to make homemade gifts for Christmas and birthdays so that we didn't have to spend so much on the holidays. I took my children to the nursing home to visit with the elderly who had NO ONE to come and see them. I only had to stay a few minutes and I had made their entire week a bit of heaven! I read books I never took time to read before. I wrote notes of encouragement to my family and to people who had blessed me at the store, or delivering mail. I read a book on home organization and realize my house wasn't as well-maintained as it could be and reorganized my cleaning methods.
I pray that some of these ideas may help you. Sit back and enjoy this time of freedom. You are so blessed to have this opportunity to just serve your family, your neighbors and your friends.

Kathryn - posted on 07/02/2010

While I agree that hobbies can help, I think you need to find ways to get out of the house with your baby. Even if its just one or two times a week. I have been a stay-at-home mom for seven years and I have had many hobbies, but I find that I get bored with them after a while. Getting out of the house, by myself, for a couple of hours a week is what helped me.

Majaliwa - posted on 07/02/2010

I agree with Danielle "Find something you like to do and run with it." Think about things you always wanted to do but never had the time or energy? Personally, I started gardening and scrapbooking, took up yoga and started blogging. Just pick something and go!

Danielle - posted on 07/02/2010

I agree with Susan. I am a mother of two and for a while didn't have a vehicle while it was in the shop (for 3mnths) I was literally climbing the walls lol. Sooo I started Cooking. Cakes, cookies, any recipe I could find. You name it I tried it. My kids enjoy it too lol they get to lick the spoon and if it turns out right then there's a nice treat afterwards. Find something you like to do and run with it.

Susan - posted on 07/02/2010

Do you have any hobbies? You need to find something that stimulates your mind so that you don't end up rearranging the furniture to look for dust bunnies. :)