Julie - posted on 01/10/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )
my brother in law lived with my husband and i once for nearly 6 months. he was supposed to only be there a month. instead of making him get a job and get the heck out, my husband bought us a house. (he was too chicken to tell him we were even moving until the week of.) the brother in law lived in a camper behind the inlaws home and finally, not wanitng to put up with his crap any longer, the inlaws went and took trespassing papers on him, took him to court and got rid of him. (his own mother!) after me saying "NO!" my husband finally got me to agree to let the jerk in our home once again. :/ (he nearly caused us to divorce last time, we did separate.) so hes been here 4 months now. ive tried getting rid of him. once more, no attempt to get a job. my husband and i are pretty much back to square one. this is my childrens home. im not up rooting them but i cant get him to get rid of his brother. i understand thats his brother, but...hes my husband. im the mother of his children and im afraid we're not going to be together much longer if he keeps letting his brother cause problems between us. i dont know what to do. :( any advice?