Melinda (Mindy) - posted on 01/28/2011 ( 53 moms have responded )
Hello there, Just looking for some more advice from other moms who may be in or have lived through my situation.
I am a 26 year old SAHM of 2 kids aged 6 and 3 and Im 7 months pregnant. This pregnancy wasnt planned but not overly avoided. I am (at this time) completely 100% sure that I do not want anymore children. While visiting my OB we discussed me getting my tubes tied however she strongly urged me to wait until Im 30. Regardless of how certain I said I am she kept throwing other options at me as in - IUD,my boyfriend getting fixed instead,and so on. She kept saying that I may not be in the same position in a few years and might want another one.
This is my fourth pregnancy (I had my first baby at 15 and she is adopted) and I feel that I am done.So should I go ahead with what I seriously want or wait the 4 years,with a possible pregnancy,to see if I will be in "another place"??