Levasia - posted on 05/11/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )
He will play with the boys when he come home from work for about 15 minutes or so then go to bed (he works 3rd shift). On his days off I will ask him to feed the boys, change the boys, give the boys a bath, or even go and check on the boys for me. The answer is always no. I am getting very frustrated and resentful. I always blow off the handle when I ask and he says no. So should I just stop asking and keep doing it all myself or find a way to let him see that it benefits the boys and not me when he's involved with the little things. BTW my toddler never ask his dad for juice or food, and when I tell him to go ask daddy (daddy is in the kitchen) he falls out and have a temper tantrum on the floor until I get up.
Desperately needing sound advice