How do I get a break from my kids if no one is prepared to help me out?


Michelle - posted on 07/02/2011




see if one of you mom friends would like to watch them for an hour or so one day and in return you watch hers another time.

Megan - posted on 07/04/2011




Do you have a tween or teenage girl in your area? I have a wonderful girl (who's 15) as a mother's helper.. Granted, it's not an alone break, but she plays with the children so I can get some things done.

Tamara - posted on 07/03/2011




Maybe if they are old enough malls have a drop off center to drop off kiddos for a little while then go get a mani-pedi or kick back in a coffee shop or something that way you are close to them but sill have some alone time out of the house.

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Jane - posted on 07/04/2011




I think this is a question we would all like the answer to. We have 4 children and no one wants to watch that many at one time LOL. It's hard for me and my hubby to even get to go out to dinner once in a blue moon. Both sets of our parents work all the time so they don't have much free time either. So is life as a parent I guess. I figure I'll get a day of rest in...oh, let's see...about 15 more years to go. SIGH

Heather - posted on 07/02/2011




put a note up on community bulletin boards where people are always looking for things ,outside the grocery store, post office, library, etc.

Katherine - posted on 07/02/2011




A baby sitter? Someone from your church if you go to one? Post at a highschool or college?

Stifler's - posted on 07/02/2011




Daycare. LOL. I'm trying to get my oldest into daycare one day a week so I have a day of peace with my baby. it wouldn't be so bad if my husband got home earlier or did a 4 on 4 off shift but nooo he changed to 5 on 2 off before the kids came along now the days are long and the weekends are short.

Michelle - posted on 07/02/2011




If you figure it out let me know. My parents work (and do what they can which isn't much) and my husbands parents are out of state. I am who everyone comes to when they need someone to take care of their kids. I think the best I have had some luck with was going to the rec center to workout and leave kids at child watch while I do it. It worked great until my son started speech therapy and I gave up my work out time for his speech appointment. My husband hasn't figured out why it's a problem that I don't get a break.

Montana - posted on 07/02/2011




i have NO idea!! I NEVER get a break either. I have a 4yr old daughter and an 18mos old son. There are no sitters in our area available 90% of the time (very small town) and my parents and my hubbys parents dont help at all. Its been 3 or 4 mos since we hired a sitter (whom we will not be calling back.. not impressed at all) and she came AFTER the kids were put to sleep.

Shannintipton - posted on 07/02/2011




That is a tough one. It would be nice if hubby could help you out. Maybe hire an experienced baby sitter. They will get older and it will get better. I know that doesn't help now. I wish I had the answer for you. Good luck :)

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