Jessica - posted on 09/22/2009 ( 142 moms have responded )
Every other day I have the same conversation with my husband. He starts out complaining because things aren't done around the house. Then I try to explain to him that cleaning with a two year old is like shoveling snow in a blizzard. I stay at home all day every day cleaning up after not only my husbands mess, but me and my sons mess as well, with no pay, no break, no nothing. My husband is convinced that since I don't work all I do is lounge around, talk on the phone, hang with my friends, etc. He says that because he works, and pays the bills, its like "getting paid" for me. How do I make him understand how hard it really is to be a stay at home mom?