Hope - posted on 12/19/2011 ( 78 moms have responded )
my fiance is a good man, he really is. but sometimes he's just so mean. he's never hit me or anything like that but he's VERY controlling. im not a loud to have a job or go to school. he checks my phone every day. im not supposed to be on the internet but i came to my moms to check this. i have not friends. he tells me what i can and cant wear, how to do my hair and makeup.. calls me a slut alot...things like that..is it abusive? and what should i do? my exboyfriend was really abusive...like actually physical....he would beat me everyday....so i dont know if this is considered abuse or not because he's not hitting me.