Brandi - posted on 02/10/2010 ( 11 moms have responded )
Ok ladies... My husband and I have not had much alone time since our son was born in June. We spend every waking second playing and nurturing him. Long story short, our love life has come to a screeching halt. I am a teacher and decided that it was very important to me and to my son for me to stay at home with him. Frankly I couldn't bare the thought of some stranger at a daycare taking care of him. But, I sat my very hard-working husband down for a talk last night and he proceeded to tell me that he is no longer in the mood because we are not spontaneous. We do the same routine every night. Lastly he told me that my mood had changed since our son was born. He said I needed to go out at night more and do things for myself. He thinks this would make things more interesting because for once I would be coming home to him.