Beck - posted on 04/06/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )
I have 2 gorgeous girls, one is 2 and the other is only 10 months and I want to have one more child when my littlest is 2, but I also have a step son and my husband isn't really very partial to having another baby, but I want a son so bad. My sister has two boys and I love them both to bits and I want my own. The only thing is if I went back for a 3rd and got another girl I would be heart broken because have decided that if we do have another that will be it. No more for us. I don't know if I want to take the chance on having another girl. We have also decided to find out what we are having in the case we do decide for a third.
Also I don't want to take away from my husband and step sons relationship by adding another boy into the mix... is it really worth it? Am I being selfish by wanting my own son when it could end up being bad to the family relationships?