User - posted on 06/23/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )
so me and my fiance have an interesting relationship, i wont delve into that right now. anyways everything is great, our daughter is 19 months old, and i like to think she is advanced for her age. thats besides the point, i just started daycare, only 2 days a week and for only four hours in the morning so that i can do something for myself, and re-develop my personality. since i feel like i am a spouse, and mother, but not a person anymore!
he works a 9-5, sometimes more. and he is an amazing father, and really does try to help me with her. but i feel like even with his help he really is never ALONE with her. alone trying to clean, alone trying to do laundry, trying to grocery shop ect...
so my question is, is it selfish of me to want him to spend more time alone with her, even now that i have daycare? i dont think so, and if anyone has a regular daddy alone time schedule they go by, i would like to hear it!