Lisa-Marie - posted on 05/23/2010 ( 82 moms have responded )
I am starting to get a little worried about my partners and my sex life. I used to always have a really high sex drive but it is slowly dying.
Just wondering how often you and your partner have sex - or if you don't want to get to personal - how often do you think a couple should have sex to maintain a healthy sex life?
Thanks for all your answers - everyone is so different. Just for your info too - even though we have sex probably only 1 time every couple of months - it's actually both of us who have lost that drive. Even that 1 time is usually me coming onto him - he has always been that way. So when it comes to doing it just to keep him happy, for me, there is no need.
Also I asked him if he feels like he is missing out or unhappy and he said that he is quite happy with our sex life and that as long as we keep up the affection we show eachother all the time (lots of cuddles and nice long kisses) - he doesn't see why we should force ourselves into having sex?? Is that weird for a guy??