K - posted on 04/22/2011 ( 18 moms have responded )
Since we moved my partner has spent a lot of time out of town for work. It sucked, but we dealt with it. Now he's home it's taken some getting used to. He grew up in the area and so has reconnected with a lot of high school friends. One in particular comes over almost every single day. Now, this friend is a really nice guy - I like him a lot. He comes to help my partner out with renos and yard stuff and stays for dinner a lot. He's a total sweetie with the kids and can't stand to see the baby cry so he's always picking her up and carrying her around.
However.... the guys will play video games until 1030 a LOT of the time. I would like to have more "us" time - even if all that means is a movie in bed, or reading together or something lame and quiet like that. My partner is open to suggestions but I don't know what's fair? How often does your hubby/bf have friends over? Where do you draw the line? Do you have a time or just days??
I just want to get an idea of what's common out there.