Leslie - posted on 04/28/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
Well I have a 3 yr old daughter and now im pregnant and i have 5 weeks left :) but anyways my point is I never really been a SAHM , and after the baby is born im going to keep being a SAHM .I just feel with 2 kids now, i really want to be in their lifes, but for some reason i feel kinda use less being at home or if something happens to my husband what would i do? I always worked and been more as independent woman lol, but seriously just mixed emotions about it. Because when other women would tell me Im a SAHM ,i would think to myself thats nice and pretty cool you can be with your children and you have a man that supports you. But now that im doing it, i dnt feel so great all the time. Has any one felt this way ??? Btw my first child is not my husbands, but we got together since she was like 7 months, and well her father was a horrible person and never has been or is a dad to her, and so i always had my guard up. Now that i have wonderful man in my life and im having a baby boy with him , he told me i dnt have to work so i dnt lol. He treats my daughter like if it was his daughter, he is just to good to be true ! well girls i had to get all of this out my chest!!! and it feels good lol :D so any advice on my mixed emotions on being a SAHM ???????????? PLS HELP . thank you !!!!