Elisabeth - posted on 03/26/2010 ( 361 moms have responded )
I'm so sick of hearing everyone on here complaining about their husbands, especially when they don't do enough around the house. They shouldn't have to do ANYTHING! They should be able to come home after a hard day work, relax, have dinner ready for them , be able to spend time with the children and be able to sit in front of the TV (or whatever they like to do) without being nagged or asked to do something. Yes it is hard for us full time mums to do so much and we do often work longer hours then our husbands, but we are stay at home mothers - it's our job. We wouldn't like it if they were always nagging us to do something when all we wanted was a few minutes rest. If you don't like it then you shouldn't of had kids, simple. Or put the kids in child care and go get a job and pay for a cleaner. Your husband works hard everyday to provide for his family and you still want more, just be happy with what you have. I get up at 5.00 every morning to make my husband breakfast and lunch, and spend time cleaning, looking after my children, looking after myself and making sure that when my husband returns from work he comes home to a clean house, a prepared meal, well mannered children and a well maintained wife greeting him at the door with a smile, cold bear and comfy pair of shoes. After we have eaten and I have cleaned we have some personal time together when I always make sure that he is satisfied, then by 10 we are happily asleep. It is a long and exhuasting day but it is well worth it because it keeps him happy and I could not ask for a happier marriage and family. Maybe if you tried doing something differant you would see an instant improvement to your marriage, because as women it is our job to keep our marriage together by keeping our husbands happy. They will adore you in return and are a lot less likley to be unfaithful. It's so simple and I don't know why everyone wants to blame thier husbands for everything that goes wrong instead of just taking some of the blame and putting some effort in themselves. Stop being so disrespectful to your husbands and they will show some respect back. And another thing how would you feel if your husband was on the internet bad mouthing you like you are doing to him everytime you write something bad.