Ola - posted on 06/20/2012 ( 11 moms have responded )
looking for some help. My mother in law tries to interfere with everything about my baby's life. Most of the time I feel she holds a grudge towards us as well coz as she said before " I took her son"!!.
She has called my daughter spoiled before few times and I had to tell her to stop calling her that.
The same situation is happening with her other granddaughter from another daughter in law. She keeps criticizing her Mom and her mom's style of brining her up and makes it look like she is spoiled because of how the mother was ( the daughter in law). This is now affecting my relationship badly with my husband because every time I explain to him and ask him that his mom shouldn't interfere like this, he just keeps on defending her all the time. I am tired of this and really thinking of leaving the relationship but I'm afraid they will keep trying to interfere and will always call my daughter spoiled or criticize her ( the way they are doing with the other grandchild)