My daughter mad after first break uo

Emil - posted on 08/20/2017 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My daughters boyfriend went to college n she is literally hating me n pushing me away n turning to her boyfriends abusive family

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JoAnne - posted on 08/24/2017

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I understand all the things you are feeling because I've been in a very similar situation. My suggestion for you is just simply to be there for her. Don't press the issue. Don't ask her to talk about. If you patiently wait and gracefully ignore the feelings of hate she is directing toward you, she should eventually realize that you have true, genuine love for her as opposed to the superficial feelings she is getting from her boyfriend's family. Be strong. Be patient. Don't give up because it will probably take some time. When she starts to turn back to you for support I suggest checking out these tools for communicating with teenagers http://bit.ly/2v8HSN0

I know this is hard but be strong. Once you work thru this you and your daughter will have a stronger bond and she will have learned valuable life skills because this probably won't be the only breakup in her life.

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