Rebecca - posted on 11/08/2016 ( 15 moms have responded )
My child is 19 and was engaged two a very handsome boy whom she loved so very much and he broke her heart by cheating. Than she dated another really good looking like who posted wanting threesome with Alli on line without her permission so again her heart was broken. So she received a soccer scholarship in allendale South Carolina. So because she was so hurt she took it, I wasn't sure about this move because she was my youngest and my first to go so far away, and with her heart being broken I was worried about her. Allison and I was so close. But as soon as she left we started having problems which I will own this because I guess I called her to much. I was worried because she had been injured twice. I wasn't allowed to see her games due to the travel. But a month ago I received a text one of Allison holding hands with a girl that she had brought home and to my family in town and Georgia and stayed with. And then a 2nd text saying I'm sorry but I'm Gay... but before I could think enough to understand what I was just told , I was send a third text saying and the girl I am talking to that makes me happy is black. I was hit with so much at one time and then I called and told Alli that Amber is never allowed in my home again. I said your dad would be so upset, and she said well I guess it's best that he's dead. She hung up with me and my family who is old school and from Georgia. I had to tell my 80 year old mother which broke her heart. Finally a few days later she called and amber was very rude to me. And than a couple days ago my 13 year old granddaughter was given a picture of Alli and Amber kissing. So I gave her a choice she gives up Amber, and learn do respect fast or I stop paying her bills and she returns my car, and drops out of college and get a job. I may have over reacted but it was dropped in my lap I don't know how to handle eith what I know I don't believe she's gay what do I do I need help?