Jenni - posted on 08/24/2010 ( 14 moms have responded )
I don't know what it is, I've talked and talked and talked to him about it and all he does is get irritated and defensive. "Stop riding my case" or "Stop pressuring me into holding my daughter, you make me feel like crap" He works, 40-50 hours a week.. but it seems as soon as he started back to work, he lets me do everything.
I go to bed early and get up with her during the night so he can get a good nights rest, but it seems when he does get home, he's spending time with the neighbors, goes fishing, or plays video games while he props her bottle up and let her lie by herself.
He told me he doesn't have to have his head up her butt to bond with her. But she's only 2 1/2 months old! She's a baby! She needs that constant interaction. I don't know why he doesn't take the initiative to get me a bottle without me asking him to, or changing her or feeding her, or even playing with her without me asking to. What do I do?!