Fanny - posted on 07/14/2013 ( 23 moms have responded )
Hello, I am writing today to try to have some insight on my issue, I am a little confused and don't know if Iam asking to much or if I should keep my position. I am a stay at home mom to 3 children 2,6 and 9 years old. I also help our business from home about 1-2 hours a day computer, phone ect...I also take care of my grand mother who recently moved in with us. I have a big house a yard ect... I am very happy to be a stay at home mom, even thought once in a while I would like to do something for me . I get to go surfing 1x a week but Have to fight with my husaband to get those 2 hours of me time every week....its making me depressed and I always anticipate asking him. His excuse is usually that he is tired ( he does work long hours for our buisness), he usaually dose not do anything in the house or take care of the kids.. we then argue and he tels me Iam a spoiled b.. priviledged ....I want it all....I feel so depressed and misunderstood that most of the time i just give in or I leave and then he sulks for days.I dont spend money, i dont go out , Iam home at the service of everyone and I just dont know how to carve that time for myself without all the drama. My mother leaves also near but he dosent like when i bring the kids so i can go do something. Thank you for reading me adn any insight is welcome.