User - posted on 07/25/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )
I was married to my daughters father for 7 years (was a very horrible marriage)
we split up and a year later the divorce was final... so that was 2 years ago.. We have joint custody of our daughter who is now 4 1/2. I have primary care of her and he get visits. he lives out of state.. I live in KY he lives in DE. (900 miles away) he has tried to obtain custody of her since the divorce and has tried everything in his power to get her, yet she still lives with me because I am not unfit.
In the mean time I of course have moved on with my life. I have had a boyfriend for 10 months, he is a great guy and he has a 10 yr old daughter and my daughter gets along with both of them very well.
My boyfriend and I have been talking about moving in together, we both decided that we do not want to get married yet. If ever.
I was told that because we are not married and if my daughters father finds out and pitches a fit about it like he probably will, that I will probably loose my daughter.. is this true?