please help me

Maria Virgina - posted on 08/16/2017 ( 6 moms have responded )

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my daughter is 1 year and 4 months old and my problem is, she always cry for little things, example: she can't open the can, instead of asking for help she just cry so loud, i dont know how to make her stop this doings, when you said no dont do that, dont touch that dont put that one there, she still does and when im going to stop her shell surely going to cry. help me pla. what im going to do?

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Maria Virgina - posted on 08/16/2017

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maybe because he is a boy, far different from the first two. ;) he is more playful and energetic to handle lol.

Maria Virgina - posted on 08/16/2017

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yes, sometimes i controlled my temper, sometimes when i got mad, i always try to be calm, i always tell to myself (thats your own child, give more effort to handle her, no one will take care of her but you) then i get calm, but sometimes i really dont control it, and sometimes she cuddle me, then kiss me, i kiss her back and always tell her that i love her ao much, even though i know that she cant clearly understand what im talking about. and i always tell her that im sorry becaise i yelled at her. i know she cant understand but i always make an effort to do that because i love her so much. more than anything, more than i love her dad.lol.

Maria Virgina - posted on 08/16/2017

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thanks for the advice. now i think im a bad mommy, because sometimes when i cant handle her, i got mad and yelled at her. but i think she dont understand what im saying or what my mood is, because sometime when i yelled she just smiled or laugh. and when she do that i always feel guilty for what ive done. im a first time mom. and i think maybe im still young and still need to learn more things im only 24 years old. aometime i cried when i feel im not good enough huhu.

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