Melissa - posted on 09/30/2009 ( 166 moms have responded )
I have a very stressful life, and mostly unhappy. I know i shouldnt have to feel like this, but i am not sure what else i can do, thought maybe someone could give me some good advice.
I love my husband, but at times i just want to give up and say enough is enough, He use to be physical abusive, @ times he still is, and very verbal abusive in genral. Nothing seems to make him happy, if it isnt his way is no way. I am tired of being afiaid and he knows i am. I shouldnt have to feel this away at all. mainly i know you cant change a person, but i want to make him see how he treats me. its not fair, i didnt want this all i wanted was love.
the yelling just use to be @ home, but the other night at the grocery store he had the courage i guess you could say to yell at me infront of everyone, because i grabbed something and put it in the cart, that he didnt like. he was yelling at me telling me to shut up. i just wanted to cry, but i held it all in. i am embarassed that he thought he has the right to do this to me.......
i know my daughter that is four doesnt need to hear all of this but yet he still goes on and on. he goes off about stupid things such as- he pays the bills everything is hes, and then he thinks he has the right of what i can eat. I am tired of being calling bad names, that i am not,
someone please give me some good advice to make him see clearly he needs to treat me alot better