Soleil - posted on 05/26/2010 ( 80 moms have responded )
Okay, I get that we are all on here to get advice and chit chat and all, but I am not understanding everyone complaining about being home with their kids and their husbands not doing enough... You do not have to stay home, it is a choice, and if your kids could read, how bad do you think they would feel if they saw you saying you're "trapped" and "going crazy" and are "miserable" Having kids is hard, get over it. And the husband thing... just wondering, does your husband come home and ask you to help fill out his paperwork, or clean his office, or if he does construction does he ask you to help lay some concrete?? NO, he does his job and we do ours. Our job, when we choose to stay home is to take care of the kids and home, and his is to make money. If you don't like the arrangement, change it... oh, and how about having enough respect for your husband not to air your dirty laundry to a bunch of strangers on line...