Lacey - posted on 08/26/2010 ( 5 moms have responded )
I am going to give a little background on my story before I beg for advice.
About a year ago my husband and I took few months off on our marriage to figure out all the silly, stressful, normal marital issuse. After about 3 months, we got back together and I assumed we were both on the same page and working towards the same goals. My daughter is 2 1/2 and I am 6 months pregnant. Last week end I found out my worst fears in life came true. My husband had a small affair. This is a new wound and I am fresh to the healing process. Now as to where I am begging advice: What in the world am I suppost to do? I am not leaving him over this, stupid, you may say. But I feel that it's worth working out. He lost his job, making 80 grand a yr to nothing with a new baby and a 2 yr old, having trust issues and scared my life has just hit rock bottom. I know I am strong enough to deal with this, and I know I will find away to take care of my kids. But in my heart I am so scared of this "new", "unknown" path in front on me.. Anyone please, any feedback will be greatly welcomed, positve or other wise. Oh and this December makes our 5th wedding anniversary.