Christi - posted on 09/21/2009 ( 34 moms have responded )
i have a nine month old son and ever since he was born my husband and i have been in what seems like a non-ending argument. he refused to help out, feed, hold, bathe, or change diapers while my son was in the hospital and when he came home. i had a c-section and the day my son came home my husband went back to work and i did it by myself. i feel like a slave and a single mom. i do all the housework and laundry and shopping and cooking, make sure all the bills are paid and set all the doc appointments and frankly i am ready to just run away. i love my son and i love my husband but i don't get any help. we have tried therapy for a few months and things were going better so we stopped going. now i want to go back, but he says the problems are my fault, that i need to be medicated. he threatens to go to strip clubs and when he gets mad he drives to oklahoma and gambles. all i want is some time with him and to get a couple of hours of help. is it time to just cut my loses and move on or do i maybe have a chance of working things out? please help.