Stay at home moms, with husbands that work away from home!

I am a stay at home mom of three. I have put my life on hold. My husband works 6 hrs away, We see him once a month sometimes! What category do I fit in? anyone else out there have a similar life style? how to cope? We have been together 8 years, married 3, he has been on the road for almost 2! He Can't finds job that will pay close to home even if we both work 40+. Any groups ? Does it get any Easier? What's best for kids? Single mom with a husband? Construction wife!