Leslie - posted on 10/06/2010 ( 12 moms have responded )
Truly concerned that BM is not doing a good job of monitoring SD's hygiene. Everytime I do her laundry there is severe poop and pee stains on ALL of her underwear. When I try and talk to her about it, she just stares at me like a deer in headlights when I ask her why she "forgets" to wipe when she goes potty. Since she's only here every other weekend and 1 night a week during the school year, its hard to monitor. We worked really hard during the summer (when she was here full time) to work on these things and made progress. Then 1 month at home with BM and she is rude, talks back, is very forgetful, and irresponsible.
How do I teach her to take better care of her body?