Sharon - posted on 08/22/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. We have a blended family. We have my 2 girls and my husband's son. My husband and daughters get along great. He thinks of them as his girls and they think of him and their dad. My step son is another story. He will be 4 next month. I love him to death his can be a great kid. His bio-mom is not allowed to have any contact with him whatsoever. He doesn't talk about her at all; He calls me momma. You would think that everything is allright. Well its not. For one thing I try hard to get the bond with him, but I just cant. The other thing is he never listens to me. I tell him to do something or not to do something and he does the exact oppisite of what I tell him. My husband is constantly telling him that he has to listen to me. I dont know how to deal with this. All advise is appreciated.