Kyleigh - posted on 06/04/2011 ( 18 moms have responded )
iwas reading on this website about parenting and step parenting, it stated that 77% of all custody cases the "custodial," parent only wants the children because its "another income," and it hurts the opposite ex spouse. Its not because that person has their best interests at heart. It states all the things the courts are looking for in a custodial parent.
I find this really odd! There is no "discussion," to that site so I couldnt post my opinion. Thought I d share. Do you know anyone that just has the children because they want to "hurt the other parent," or is it "child support," making the other parent Pay for the child whether it is spent on the child or not. Know a lot of people that don't spend any money on the children and by other things of non importance. CS is to go for utilities, gas , food, mortgage, rent. etc...you need that to support the child. My dh doesnt charge BM for CS at all . His personal opinion a man shouldnt charge a woman he should be able to provide.
its getting better the relationship between BM and my dh! He was at first hesistant but now its definitly improving. It makes my 2 SK's happy! Thats what counts...